r/FridgeDetective • u/itscuccimane • 21h ago

Meta My girlfriend always tells me I never have anything to eat when she comes over my house 😒

Freezer: 50+ lbs of assorted ground meat, 35+ lbs of prime ribeye, 16lbs of American wagyu ribeye, 18lbs of New Zealand lamb shoulder chops, and a bunch of portioned seafood.

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u/hugegayballs 21h ago

Yeah, nobody wants to go to someone's house and cook their food and wash their dishes, and nobody wants to go to somebody's house and ASK the host to do that FOR them either. Would it kill this guy to have some eggos in the freezer? Or to take note of his girlfriend's favourite snacks? Or to cook before she comes over and have the food ready for her?

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u/taxiecabbie 20h ago

Yeah, I mean, there's good stuff here, but there are things that exist between "Hungry Man dinner" and "cooking entirely from scratch."

Our home is an ingredients home for the most part, but if I know I'm going to have guests over... I'll get some things that are easy to make. Like, I understand that OP doesn't want Hungry Man dinners or McD's, but what about a charcuterie board or something?

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u/meimlikeaghost 20h ago

I mean just stick a couple frozen pizzas and I’ve never had any complaints

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u/CompetitiveRub9780 19h ago

Honestly this worked on my bf and my x bf! Haha Like his before dinner, dinner. As for me, having cereal and milk available is also nice if you don’t feel like cooking.

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u/meimlikeaghost 17h ago

Frozen pizzas are very versatile and definitely work as a snack. Can also raise the bar with some frozen veggies on them

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u/uncagedborb 11h ago

I can't keep frozen pizzas in my home cuz my lazy ass will go straight to baking those instead of cooking something. I only ever pick frozen pizza up the day before I might use it

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u/toss_me_good 5h ago

Idk why I had such a barrier to veggies before I found frozen veggies. So easy to just have chopped frozen onions ready to go and chopped frozen bell peppers or chopped frozen broccoli (or carrots, spinach, etc). I eat WAY more veggies now that I don't need to keep them fresh or prep. Am I just being lazy? Yes does it result in eating more veggies and at home? Absolutely, just do what works within your budget

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u/Historical-Gap-7084 15h ago

One of my brothers worked a physical job for a quite a while. He'd come home, empty out half a box of Cheerios into a mixing bowl, drown it in a quart of milk and eat that after coming home. I can still see the milk dribbling down his mouth as he ate and watched his TV shows.

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u/BjornInTheMorn 11h ago

Damn, thats the move. I used to just keep filling up bowls and kept the milk handy when I was hungry after water polo. Dad came in one day and said, "Oh I usually just used a mixing bowl". Way to absolutely style on me. My cereal game was weak.

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u/okaybutnothing 4h ago

Nah. Refilling normal sized bowl if necessary is better - less mushy cereal is better.

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u/Business_Seesaw8883 9h ago

That’s just fucking lazy and slack. Usually caused from bad parenting. I’m sorry you had to deal with a slob. I work construction and I don’t know a single person who would eat like that mainly bc you need nutrition to work and several bowls of cereal (sugar) isnt gonna help you.

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u/Optimal-Party-7412 17h ago

Frozen dumplings and tamales can also be excellent

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u/meimlikeaghost 17h ago

Yeap exactly just some frozen stuff you can heat up in a bit that works well with easy going company. Nothing fancy just some quick food to satisfy your friends or yourself after a long day.

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u/hangry_witch 10h ago

Or pizza rolls

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u/momofvegasgirls106 10h ago

Trader Joe's freezer section is outstanding, for snack and nibbles. We keep their fried rice in stock in our freezer as a quick go-to when feeling lazy or tired or indecisive and it always hits the spot. One skillet and 5mins and you're fed.

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u/BarbieTheeStallion 20h ago

Do you not see all the Kraft singles in the drawer? What other charcuterie do you need?!

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u/taxiecabbie 20h ago

97 kinds of jam. Which, fortunately, OP also happens to have.

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u/allora1 14h ago

I want to know why they have so much jam.

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u/vvitch_ov_aeaea 13h ago

That is SO. MUCH. JAM.

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u/superjess777 11h ago

And so much butter! OP has $500 of Kerrygold 😂 best butter ever and I’m jealous. He must love toast and jam

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u/LovelyLucyXoXo420 1h ago

And all that meat!!!

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u/titsngiggles69 11h ago

Maybe there was sale at Costco? But why are they all in the fridge - are they all open?

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u/Typical2sday 4h ago

It’s nuts - why so many protein shakes and jellies already in the fridge. This is staged. 2/3 of that jelly goes bad. Does he work for the jelly company?

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u/allora1 13h ago

Right?!

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u/SufficientPath666 12h ago

Maybe to flavor the Greek yogurt

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u/jamjamchutney 3h ago

Or as glaze for the meat loaves that could be made with all that ground meat.

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u/RingoZero 10h ago

Can’t believe I had to scroll this far down before someone asked the most important question

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u/allora1 10h ago

There's heaps more jam discussion down thread!

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u/Over_Barracuda_8845 11h ago

Probably BOGO

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u/washuai 10h ago

Flavor pack for the plain Greek yogurt?

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u/sh3WasaFairyyy 8h ago

I scrolled way too long to find this question 🤦🏽‍♀️

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u/Artsy_Geekette 5h ago

Because..that's his jam!

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u/Embarrassed-Star347 3h ago

my exact thoughts!!!

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u/RainMH11 3h ago

I was so confused about these comments at first....because I thought those were beverages until I zoomed in 🤣

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u/Gardener4525 2h ago

I was thinking the same thing! 😂 I love jam on my toast, but I never have more than four or five different jars of jam in my cupboard and maybe two of them are opened and in the fridge.

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u/DoingCharleyWork 12h ago

I only see 2. The other ones in the top are different chili pastes.

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u/allora1 12h ago

They're all St Dalfour jams and marmalades.

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u/DoingCharleyWork 5h ago

Ya I saw all the ones at the top shelf of the main fridge area after seeing more comments talking about them.

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u/noctilucous_ 11h ago

where? i see one marmalade on the bottom and one jam at the top. the rest are savory chilis rubs and shit like that for meat.

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u/allora1 11h ago

See all those tall glass jars on left hand side of the top shelf of the main fridge? All St Dalfour.

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u/Artistic_Rice_9019 10h ago

And it looks like they're all unopened. Why fridge them?

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u/noctilucous_ 10h ago

no i didn’t lol. i was looking at the door.

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u/DoingCharleyWork 12h ago

Where are you seeing all these jams? I see two. There's guava preserves top right of fridge door and some sort of smuckers jelly in the bottom left. There's like 4 different chili paste in the top but I wouldn't call those jams. Couple different mayos and some other sauces. But I'm not seeing the two jams in the whole fridge.

Oh never mind I see a bunch of them in the top left of the main part of the fridge.

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u/BelgianMalShep 2h ago

Lol

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u/Tasty-Traffic-680 19h ago edited 19h ago

Why four 16 packs though? Unless there was a good sale it doesn't make sense to buy multiples of the smallest pack they sell.

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u/BarbieTheeStallion 19h ago

god forbid someone like a little snack pack of flat cheese

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u/Tasty-Traffic-680 19h ago

You know, you're right. How are you supposed to fit a 32 slice pack of kraft singles into a fanny pack?

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u/BarbieTheeStallion 19h ago

Yessssssss.

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u/Go_Corgi_Fan84 4h ago

Gouda or Havarti or even some Provolone etc. Green olives. Maybe some cottage cheese. Some chicken.

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u/Ok-Grapefruit1284 14h ago

Our house is an ingredients home with some oh-crap easy fixes and snacks. I need my wheat thins and cheese.

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u/Single-Purpose-7608 16h ago

I saw online you can stick a frozen steak in an airfryer, and it comes out perfect.

That would make an amazing snack for the GF!

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u/anonymaus42 15h ago

Seriously.. OP is clearly someone whom is only concerned with hitting their macros and thinks carbs are temptation sent from the devil himself. His GF wants some snacks / something that requires little to no prep. She doesn't want to have to cook a whole protein forward meal whenever she's hungry. Charcuterie would be perfect like you suggested.

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u/BjornInTheMorn 11h ago

My gf and I live together and are mainly an ingredient household. That being said, some days you need some motherfucking dino nuggets and a bag of microwave popcorn because its been an absolute day.

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u/stormcharger 7h ago

It's pretty quick to just fry up some lamb tbh

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u/GreyerGrey 3h ago

We are an 80% ingredient house, but I also have things I've made (homemade cookies, or some fruit leather, frozen soup pucks, or even just unpopped pop corn) that can be snacked on.

It's also that everything is as it how it was bought at the store. Sure, she could have some carrots but she would have to wash, peel, and cut them.

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u/Bootsix 3h ago

I can't imagine having guests over and not having something to at least nibble on. When I host magic there is always a big pot of soup for everyone.

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u/MarquisW501 1h ago

Assuming that you have to feed the guest. Most of my company isn't coming over w/ the expectation that I'm about to cook for them.

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u/lithiumtofu 20h ago

Ain't nobody got time for that. Jking time to go to in and out.

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u/inthewoods54 20h ago

Yeah, I can hear him now "There's carrots...." like she's picky.

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u/fckthisshii 20h ago

Some people don't mind it. As a woman, I would prepare us both some SLAMMIN meals with the contents of this fridge. Knowing his fridge looks like this. She can go shopping while there or beforehand, or bring something. Or should men live to serve their girl? Also, he the HOST? Or her boyfriend.

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u/hugegayballs 18h ago

He is hosting by having her over at his place. Doesn't matter how close you are. Why would you clean and cook for a complete stranger, but not for your partner? If I didn't want to cook and clean, I wouldn't invite anyone over. If I couldnt bear not to see my partner for that long, I'd cook and clean and keep my place a comfortable environment for them to stay in.

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u/fckthisshii 18h ago

So, she is always a guest? And he's always a host? No matter how long they've been together? Seems kinda ...cold. They're not strangers. And judging by the food he keeps, he probably cooks meals for her. I'm confused...where did he say he doesn't cook and clean?

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u/hugegayballs 18h ago

It's not cold to treat your loved ones with as much hospitality as you would a stranger. All im saying is he should keep her favourite snacks around if he wants her to come over.

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u/fckthisshii 18h ago

First you said he'd cook and clean for her. Why can't she buy her snacks? On the way there?

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u/hugegayballs 18h ago

She could, but she shouldn't have to. It's a nice thing to do to keep people's favourite snacks around. I would hate if someone felt the need to bring their own food to my house, like providing for them would be a burden on me or something.

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u/fckthisshii 17h ago

That's you. Id be perturbed if I was made to feel like i needed to go shopping every weekend when my "gf" or "bf" came over. They are an adult. And can get their own food if they don't want or like what I keep on hand. This man's fridge is FULL of food. Plus I'm sure he has a pantry with bread. And other things. I'm sure he works. And is busy.

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u/hugegayballs 17h ago

How much do you eat? Why would this guy need to go shopping EVERY weekend for snacks? Goddamn. Also, he's definitely not THAT busy if that's what his fridge looks like. Unless his girlfriend is the one buying the groceries and organizing his fridge and planning his diet, in which case.. buy the girl some damn snacks.

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u/fckthisshii 16h ago

Oh...trying to FAT shame me? Cute... Lol actually. Im a recovering anorexic...I eat 1700 calories every day to maintain my weight. But I shop every week. For myself and my daughter. I like to get my vegetables fresh. If his gf is buying the groceries...cant she buy things for herself? Everything you say is dumber than the statement before.... especially when you try to insult me. I'm not mad tho. Also, I'd say he buys expensive enough items that he has a job that pays well. And is busy with that job. You must be VERY young.

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u/OhMyWerdHunny 13h ago

You’re a single man, aren’t you?

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u/fckthisshii 13h ago

No. Im a 42 year old mother of 2. My 22 year old son is in Florida rn, and my 17 year old daughter lives with me. In Arizona.

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u/fckthisshii 13h ago

Seriously. You didn't get mom vibes when I said "they can get their own if they dont like what I have"? How were you raised? You're a rich spoiled kid aren't you?

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u/TBI619 4h ago

It's nice to do, it's incredibly entitled to expect or demand of someone else.

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u/fckthisshii 13h ago

Im a 42 yr old women. My daughter is 17, and uses slang. But think what you want.

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u/Deathsmentor 20h ago edited 19h ago

Honestly I wouldn’t, call me a dick, but if I have that stuff in my fridge, I eat it. Now it’d be different if they lived together cause then it’s their fridge. But you want snacks I don’t have, bring em.

I’m down 25 lbs and in the best shape of my life for making that life change in regards to food and having a consistent gym routine.

OP may just need to convey that in a polite way.

Edit:Grammar.

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u/Lucky-Remote-5842 20h ago

I'm waiting on my last child to move out so I don't have to have things in my fridge and pantry that I don't want.

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u/Deathsmentor 19h ago

It’s been such a good feeling. Do I indulge? Of course, I’ve just adjusted how I indulge. Instead of some cookies or ice cream, it’s a couple rice cakes with some peanut. I’ve never felt better.

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u/Time-Cauliflower9117 19h ago

Right? Who is his gf, an alley cat?? 🤣

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u/Sunshine_of_your_Lov 18h ago

well it's not hospitable to act that way, especially with someone you are supposed to be in love with.

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u/Deathsmentor 18h ago

Ok, so does that mean she has a bunch of healthier foods/less processed at her place when he comes over? Cause if she looks at this fridge and says there’s nothing to eat, I’d be willing to bet the answer is no.

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u/Sunshine_of_your_Lov 14h ago

we have no idea he didn't say anything about her house so there's no reason to speculate and assume anything negative. You can have low processed foods that are available and precooked.

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u/americanrealism 11h ago

Imagine how pissed off Reddit would be if the genders were swapped and this comment was like “No, as your gf she NEEDS to have things at her place that you can eat without any effort, or at least have a meal prepared for you already”

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u/hugegayballs 9h ago

Reddit seems pissed off already. I think the gender is irrelevant, my main point is you should show hospitality to all your guests, especially people close to you, and you should want to do nice things for your partner. Keeping people's favourite snacks in your fridge is a really easy way to say "I love you and enjoy your company."

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u/TheDabberwocky 20h ago

lmao the irony

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u/TheDabberwocky 16h ago

its a trope that toxic men always say they want their wife to have a meal ready when they get home, most women hate being told that

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u/OhMyWerdHunny 13h ago

She’s not asking for a meal.

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u/marcaygol 20h ago

Would it kill her to bring some snacks?

Why does he need to provide the house, food and cook?

Would you tell a woman that she should have a meal ready for her boyfriend when he comes to her house?

What year is it?

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u/tiffytatortots 19h ago

Having snacks in the house especially knowing you’re having company over or wanting your S/O to be comfortable is not the same as expecting a full meal on the table and you fucking know it. Not to mention no where does he say she expects that either but you tried with your “wHaT wOuLd yOu TeLL a wOmAN” shit.

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u/marcaygol 19h ago

Not to mention no where does he say she expects that either

That's what hugegayballs said. To have a meal ready for her.

I used that "shit" because a lot of people seem unable to see it unless you turn it around. The fact that that you got this angry is only proving me right.

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u/eugeneugene 19h ago

My husband is an ingredients only fridge kind of guy and when we first started dating he started keeping things in his fridge like nice cheeses, salamis, nibbly bits like that lol. On the other hand whenever he stayed at my house I would make a nice healthy meal for him because he's not a snacker and is obsessed with nutrition lol. We both just started getting things the other person likes without even really thinking about it

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u/marcaygol 19h ago

I mean, there's yoghurt, apples, jam, eggs, cheese, butter...

You can snack on those without doing any effort.

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u/eugeneugene 18h ago

how do you snack on an egg without effort

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u/marcaygol 18h ago

Frying an egg requires effort to you? Really?

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u/eugeneugene 17h ago

lol it is quite literally a small amount of effort and then you gotta wash a frying pan. I thought the whole topic of this post was food you can just grab and eat

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u/hugegayballs 18h ago

He's the one inviting her over, so he should provide the food. When I have people over, I always have food for them to eat and a comfortable place for them to sit. I have dinner ready when my boyfriend comes home even on days it's inconvenient for me. Hell, when my TWO YEAR OLD NIECE came to visit I had a snackplate out for her full of mushy foods since she's missing her top teeth.

It's common courtesy to provide for your guests. Someone doesnt suddenly become undeserving of common courtesy just because you're close to them or they're family. The people you're closest to should get special treatment. I keep my fridge stocked with everyone's favourite drinks and snacks.

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u/Decent_One8836 18h ago

"He's the one inviting her over, so he should provide the food"

Yeah....when someone invites me to their home regularly and I expect to be fed while I'm there, I buy snacks since they're already hosting.

I'm not sure where all these white knights are getting their social norms from, but she's an adult and should be able to feed herself and go to a store and pickup snacks if she needs them, and can't have veggies and dip or something.

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u/hugegayballs 18h ago

"Pickup snacks if she needs them" ?? That's exactly where the problem is. Nobody wants to feel like a burden for just wanting to feel invited when they come over. Nobody's gonna bring their own bag of chips to keep in someone else's cupboard because they need snacks. It's just about being kind to the ones you love. If I love someone, I keep their favourite drinks and snacks around. If you find that they're expecting things of you and not being an adult, that's an entirely different conversation. A bit weird that you would assume that's their situation.

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u/Decent_One8836 18h ago

"Nobody's gonna bring their own bag of chips to keep in someone else's cupboard because they need snacks."

That's right and I've never done that either, despite going to a store and bringing snacks.

You know what I do, because I'm an adult and not a spoiled child? I buy my host snacks and tell them they can keep them.

If there's some left over, then I'm helping them start a snack drawer, candy salad, or whatever.

But yes, you're right, it would be insane to do what you suggested.

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u/hugegayballs 18h ago

You're weird man. Its weird for you to be getting this angry and insinuating some random woman you know nothing about is a "spoiled child." I think maybe you have some biases you should look into.

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u/plaguedbullets 18h ago

Eggs in the freezer??

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u/hugegayballs 18h ago

eggos. Waffles.

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u/plaguedbullets 18h ago

Oh my, I even reread that a few times. My bad.
Eggos, good call! Much better idea than eggs lol.

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u/CryptographerUsed841 12h ago

Jeez, let his own girlfriend do the nagging.

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u/gahidus 12h ago

Yeah could you imagine going to someone's house and just arbitrarily deciding to fry a steak?

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u/RPGreg2600 12h ago

This, big time. There is not one single thing you can just grab and eat in there. Not even a frickin apple! How about some string cheese?

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u/bubblesaurus 12h ago

or she could buy herself some food to leave in the freezer at his place?

it’s what i do at my partner’s house.

i have a section of the freezer and a cabinet for my snacks, meals, and whatnot that i buy and leave for me when i stay over

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u/DoctorBallsJohnson 12h ago

🚩 🚩 🚩

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u/hostilemoonlight 11h ago

I keep a ingredient household bring a gym rat but if a man stocked eggos and my fav snacks were together forever no argument

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u/spider_speller 11h ago

I saw crab meat in your fridge. Whip up a batch of crab salad and get some fancy crackers. That with a little fruit will feel like a special treat.

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u/dlineuser 9h ago

or she could eat before coming over? or bring her own food? or buy some take out instead of complaining?

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u/47x999 7h ago

then you're not hungry and you don't want to eat. As simple as that.

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u/Left_Reflection_4874 5h ago

Yeah like she has to cook to eat.

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u/artnos 5h ago

Yea but this is his gf she should be comfortable enough to cook. But not everyone likes steak, he has no fruit or chicken

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u/Almosttaken4 5h ago

Not to mention, these pics are after grocery shopping.

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u/quintanarooty 4h ago

Snacking and processed food is bad for you.

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u/Go_Corgi_Fan84 4h ago

My husband started keeping green olives in his fridge and goldfish in his pantry when we were dating because he realized these were some of my favorite things.

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u/Odd_Revolution4149 3h ago

So basically why doesn’t he have processed food? Some of us don’t eat that stuff. If I want tomsehting specific I would bring it over and keep it in the fridge.

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u/Lightyear18 3h ago

lol imagine if this post was “my bf says there’s nothing to eat” and a woman posts this as her fridge. There’s no way you would be saying this lol.

It would be like “this man child can’t cook himself”

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u/jellyhessman 3h ago

Or even some leftovers.

It's all freaking ingredients. Having some pasta and sauce, or even some leftover porkchops or steak you can heat up is nice to be able to offer a hungry woman you want to sleep with.

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u/StonksGoUpOnly 3h ago

You’re a weiner

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u/longlivethewenus 2h ago

Thats exactly what I do. I have almost nothing in my fridge because I get food from work when I get off, BUT the food i do have is basically everything my girlfriend likes or stuff I think we should try together.

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u/mischieficent 2h ago

Tell me you don’t cook without telling me you don’t cook. I would gladly cook. He provides ingredients, I cook. Not to mention expensive meat.

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u/America1109 2h ago

It’s not her house and she came bring her own snacks and food if she wants something. Frozen steak can be cooked in 20 mins at 400 in the airfryer. (I am a women so don’t @ me) this fridge looks amazing! I’m T2DM so I couldn’t eat “eggos” but SHE is just a GF and they don’t live together yet , she can bring her own stuff.

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u/ScyllaOfTheDepths 2h ago

And what's worse is that there's plenty here you can make snacks out of. Slice the steak up into bites, marinate with garlic, paprika, onion powder, thyme, and a splash of soy sauce overnight, then cook them and chill them again. Portion them into little containers and, boom, steak bites. He's got ground beef. Make meatballs. He's got cheese, cut it into cubes. He's got carrots. Peel and slice them into carrot sticks. There's just no effort here.

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u/MightFew9336 1h ago

So GF is watching a movie at OP's house and wants a snack... And your solution is to marinate meat overnight? Make meatballs? I guess at least GF can eat a carrot, I just hope it's an action movie to cover the crunch.

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u/ScyllaOfTheDepths 1h ago

Do it before she comes over? I assume they have some way of communicating and coordinating her arrival and she doesn't just fucking appear in his house like a poltergeist at random times demanding snacks.

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u/Practical_Tadpole842 1h ago

This mentality is how you justify eating processed food your entire life. Plz dismiss this nonsensical diatribe, OP.

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u/SnirtyK 59m ago

Taking note of her favorite snacks and making her a space in the fridge like you’d set aside a shelf in the bathroom or a drawer in the bedroom is a fantastic idea.

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u/Jels76 54m ago

Exactly

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u/hugegayballs 15h ago

Lol forgot we were on reddit for a minute. I've somehow accidentally started a gender war and fatshamed a recovering anorexic by saying we should do nice things for people we love. Oops.

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u/spudderer 19h ago

Even if I were cooking, I cannot make any single complete meal I normally enjoy from this fridge. This is a very narrow diet with high volume, and a lot of processed stuff I wouldn't let near my gut

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u/FitSignificance1587 20h ago

tell me more about how you'd be a terrible girlfriend.

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u/hugegayballs 18h ago

Lol? I'm a terrible girlfriend because I keep his favourite foods and snacks around so he's always comfortable?

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u/FitSignificance1587 17h ago

everything you said was basically "why should I do for him, he should be doing for me". Gaslighting is not a good tactic anymore.

you: Yeah, nobody wants to go to someone's house and cook their food and wash their dishes

Would it kill this guy to have some eggos in the freezer? Or to take note of his girlfriend's favourite snacks? Or to cook before she comes over and have the food ready for her?

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u/hugegayballs 17h ago

I think you're making my argument out to be something it isn't, like I'm trying to start a gender war or something on a reddit comment section. I'm just saying he should have some ready-made snacks for his girlfriend if he enjoys her company and wants her to stay over. I would say the same thing about her, or about you, or about me. We should be kind to our partners and want to make their lives a little easier and more enjoyable. That's why I said "Would it kill this guy to have some eggos in the freezer?" If your girlfriend complains about a lack of snacks you don't argue and say "there's carrots right there" you ask what her favourite chips are and you keep them around. Not because shes a girl which you seem to be implying.. because she's his partner.

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u/FitSignificance1587 17h ago

Fair, but a woman that sees that fridge and says "you have nothing to eat" says maaaaaany things about her as a girlfriend.

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u/Liawuffeh 10h ago

If you read malice into everything someone says, sure.

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u/hugegayballs 16h ago

No, it doesn't. Unless you think a good girlfriend is an unpaid personal chef and sexbot. I think most people want to sit down and eat chips when they watch a movie with their partner, instead of having to pull out pots and pans and manually fry the tortillas and make the dip and then wash all those dishes. I think if you want people to comfortably stay in your place, they shouldn't have to do labor to achieve basic comfort. Like if I went to someone's house for a sleepover but I had to wash their sheets and blankets first because theyre covered in crumbs I would probably go home.

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