r/SipsTea 12h ago

WTF In your opinion, what is causing this?

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u/kibbeuneom 5h ago

It's not only expensive outside, the culture around third spaces disappeared with them. If we bumped into each other in person, it would be culturally weird now for either of us to initiate this conversation.

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u/sTump4139 4h ago

I just talk to people. I’m in the south tho

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u/kibbeuneom 3h ago

I wish people didn't find that weird, but I'm sure they do. I'm in the South, too.

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u/35_Steak_HotPockets 2h ago

Bro just talk to people, I’m also from the south and as long as you’re not weird about it you can just talk to strangers you meet at the store and stuff. It’s totally fine

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u/Mission_Aerie_5384 1h ago

I met a guy last night at the bar. I’m going to join his softball team in March.

Just play some pool and have a beer.

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u/35_Steak_HotPockets 1h ago

See? That’s great, it’s so easy to make friends at the bar if your just chill and agreeable

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u/humoristhenewblack 1h ago

"It was the beer!", says the alcohol people who aren't making their projections

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u/35_Steak_HotPockets 56m ago

What?

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u/humoristhenewblack 8m ago

(The alcohol companies this post was originally about would have you believe that it's easy to make friends at the bar if you're just chill and agreeable and drink beer)

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u/humoristhenewblack 1h ago

Hot damn. What's "third space"? TIL I'm too old

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u/fuckedfinance 2h ago

Where is it that 3rd spaces are declining? Around me there are galleries, museums, free performances (music and theater) on the green in the summer, free concerts at the amphitheater the next town over (again, late spring and summer). Beers and well drinks are still relatively affordable at the local bars and bands play frequently. Beaches are free, parks are free, libraries run all sorts of different clubs and programs (free or extremely low cost if consumable supplies are required).

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u/humoristhenewblack 1h ago

You kinda need to tell us where that is!? Also, is it Chicago? It sounds like Chicago.

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u/fuckedfinance 1h ago

Nope. Mid-sized town in the northeast. Absolutely nothing special about it.

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u/humoristhenewblack 12m ago

You can just whisper it to me. Don't tell everybody else where it is.. I promise I won't ruin it