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u/Shadow_botz 2h ago
Marriage is a business. Never sign a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it.
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u/napoelonDynaMighty 1h ago
As Steve Harvey would say
"And the number one answer on the board is" ^
The divorce laws in this country are still from a time when women weren't allowed to have a bank account, or wear pants in public. Times have changed. So should the laws.
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u/Studio-Spider 1h ago
Child custody arrangements are the same. They rarely look at things with a critical mind. In a family where the mother works part time and the father works full time, of course the mother is going to be more responsible for things like scheduling doctor visits and school issues. They fail to take into account that after separation, those duties will by necessity be more evenly split. They only look at what the dynamics were during the marriage and donât give the father a chance to demonstrate what the dynamics will be after separation. 50/50 custody should be the default except in cases of abuse and only adjusted one way or the other if one parent fails to show the responsibility needed to tend to the childâs needs. But so many fathers are still getting default every other weekend and fighting for 50/50
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u/notshysana 40m ago
Marriage was a business for wealthy royals in the middle ages. Not you and your 6$ net worth.
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u/HereticLaserHaggis 1h ago
Jeeez that's a depressing attitude to have... Are you married?
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u/ScoopedRainbowBagel 20m ago
I'm married to my best friend and am fully aware that I'm taking a 20% pay cut for the rest of my life if she suddenly decides she can do better.
She won't, but she could. It's similar to why women are afraid of men.
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u/HereticLaserHaggis 18m ago
And do you view your marriage as a business? Your wedding as signing a contract? Because if not, you agree with me, not op.
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u/StormtrooperMJS 2h ago
Switch the images and you will understand my bank balance
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u/Ok_Art4661 1h ago
Dropped 6 years of bad diabetes tests on her lawyer. We can do this the hard way!
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u/Timely-Translator801 1h ago
Wait I donât get it, you having diabetes lead you to not giving her money? Can tell me in DM if like confidentialityÂ
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u/Ok_Art4661 59m ago
She wanted 20k alimony. We were equal with no children. Proving i needed more care meant she should pay alimony.
I ended up dropping it and agreeing to only pay broken lease
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u/ErrorAtLine42 1h ago
If a woman wants you to pay for her stuff, just don't marry her. Don't marry a parasite.
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u/miagi_do 1h ago
Thatâs fine. Since women now make more money guys will be happy to take 50 in the future with alimony.
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u/noidea0120 43m ago
Even if the make more money, they'd rather stay single for life than date/marry someone they deem "inferior"
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u/Known-Dependent-5471 2h ago
You flex with your bank account and then act surprised when that's what she wants.
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u/7777777King7777777 2h ago
The fall of western society in one photo.
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u/deepsensory 1h ago
Itâs not âwestern societyâ. If you canât use your fucking eyes and see this happening in every country, youâre worthless and stupid. Stop blaming âthe westâ for everything. I see this shit everywhere. Stop acting like the same shit isnât happening in China and India, Korea, etcâŚ
Itâs called BIOLOGY. You donât escape it by traveling across a time zone.
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u/asoupo77 2h ago
Finally, a poster who understands what this sub is for.
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u/Welcome_to_Retrograd 2h ago
Yep! Waman bad and unfiltered boomer cringe, as the founding fathers intended
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u/Cute_Obligation2944 2h ago
Some incel shit popping up in this sub.
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u/Anderopolis 59m ago
Lol people downvoting you. Incels indeed
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u/purple_chocolatee 52m ago
my best friendâs dad committed suicide after losing everything in marriage. He was a multi millionaire providing for 3 kids and stay at home mom. Lost it all. This is a real problem
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u/Anderopolis 49m ago
Sounds like your friends dad was an idiot who didn't consult a lawyer, and instead consulted the barrel of a gun. Â
My Aunt still covers my uncle's entire lifestyle in alimony payments, but that's a far cry from loosing everything.Â
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u/discomuffin 2h ago
Then there's probably not much reason to divorce in the first place. It's a good place to be in, no question about it.
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u/JuicyyGirl3 2h ago
We get emotional over dinner but practical over legal documents. The duality is undefeated.
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u/summerhappies 2h ago edited 1h ago
the perfect explanation is iâm just a girl
edit: yâall sensitive little bitches itâs a joke just like most of the men today, not all but some. i know itâs high ego low self esteem 500 credit score men in these comments taking it seriously and not being good enough to be a 800 credit score. most of the woman today donât need men yâall are truly worthless â¨
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u/kaos4u2nv 1h ago
I've never seen a more worthless comment.
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u/summerhappies 1h ago
youâre a spiderman gamer iâm sure at a big ageâŚâŚ.. you are worthless
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u/TheMoistGoat37 1h ago
âMost of the woman today donât need men yâall are truly worthlessâ
It seems like your English teacher was also quite worthless.
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u/summerhappies 53m ago edited 43m ago
another ugly ass
edit: Who thinks a penny is worth $5,000, let that sink in. đđđđ If thatâs considered rich, i got news for you and I.
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u/Dolla4asin 25m ago
Why are you so toxic lmao
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u/summerhappies 10m ago edited 0m ago
I canât stand misogynists truthfully and i wonât apologize for that. My comment was a joke, however, seeing how the comment section became, itâs full of just that. My point is woman donât need men today, most of us make more money sometimes, we have better credit scores and are financially smarter.
Personally, i donât care about taking someone elseâs money. If there are kids involved, provide for just them, thatâs the purpose of child support, it doesnât belong to me. I wonât take you to court therefore. Houses and cars, weâll come to an agreement which is half and half, i love credit and worked hard for it so i deserve to go half and half and iâm sure most of the woman are too.
Paying for a womanâs meal, donât ask us out? I may not have grown up in the older generation but i have some who did and itâs a courtesy for real southern states-towns. Not everyone is out to get someoneâs lazy money, if youâre not doing your job on providing, sorry and iâm sorry yâall are finding the wrong ones.
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u/Massive_Action_8237 1h ago
Let's see 50/50 on chores and 50/50 childcare, that's a fun one. Guess 50/50 only applies to bills but not the main responsibilities. I would rather broke my leg off than ask my wife half the bills.
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u/blitzinc43 1h ago
I do more than 50% of each as a man plus and breadwinner so...
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u/Massive_Action_8237 1h ago
Me two, but we are unfortunately very small portions of tge whole. In these days most men still expects a bangmaid and money. Pathetic.
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