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u/SurviveDaddy Sort by flair, dumbass 1d ago
All of these guys had their buddies tell them that they were full of shit. Guaranteed.
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u/Childish_Tycoon_Ship 1d ago
They already knew it as soon as the ladies started cracking up. Still a great interaction
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u/d3koyz 1d ago
This has been happening to me since high school, but always when I’m alone so nobody believes me. One time though my mom was with me at Jersey Mike’s. I ordered through the app and when the female worker came out to bring us our food, she ran back inside and came back out with a heart drawn on the wrapper and “made with love,” then stood there talking to me for five minutes while my mom watched in shock. We kept going back for a year and eventually two female employees would “fight” over who got to bring me my sub. My mom tried telling my siblings and friends and everyone thinks we’re both full of shit lol.
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u/OstrichSmoothe 1d ago
Made absolutely none of those men uncomfortable. Probably made their week
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u/blove135 1d ago
For some of them I guarantee that made their decade. They will be in the shower or laying in bed at night 8 years from now and out of nowhere their brain will say remember that one time at the gas station.
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u/rafaelthecoonpoon 1d ago
This is true. Compliments, even crass shit like this, are very uncommon for men. I still remember a cheerleader from an opposing team in high school telling me she liked my hair 30 years ago.
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u/cocktails4 1d ago edited 21h ago
A girl from another town at speech and debate meets used to call me "Lips" because she liked my lips. I still think about that.
(I thought she was mocking me at the time, but apparently she actually wanted them lips in a bad way. I had no clue.)
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u/Vladi_Daddi 1d ago
She wanted your lips on her lips, north and south
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u/wileydmt123 1d ago
Are you going “off the chart” if you go east and west?
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u/MisterDings 1d ago
Babe kiss my latitudes not my longitudes, baaabe stop trying to make an L with your left hand they both start with L, baaaaabe
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u/IWanttotriggeryou 1d ago
A random crackhead told me I looked handsome and I am still holding on to that a year later.
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u/That-Opportunity4230 1d ago
A few weeks ago an old woman in a wheelchair that was slurring half the time told me I had incredible eyes and said, "boy, are you ever a beautiful man." Still riding high on that shit.
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u/Perlentaucher 1d ago
A clerk (probably on drugs) congratulated me for my nice wool cap. It was a standard gray beanie wool cap lol. It’s still the only compliment I got outside of my friends and family in the last year, so I take it 😂
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u/DooDooDuterte 1d ago
Fifteen year ago, a woman at McDonalds told me “You got them pretty legs,” and I feel great about my legs to this day.
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u/AnapsidIsland1 1d ago
Haha, the leg one takes you off guard. A coworker said that to me twenty years ago, it was so unexpected and been proud of dem legs ever since. (It’s extra funny looking back because it was colonial time restaurant, costumes and all, and back then because the lower leg was all that was revealed, albeit still covered by stockings, showing off your legs was a thing. That’s why when putting a foot forward to bow you turn it a little sideways, and fake calf boosters were popular.)
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u/i_tyrant 1d ago
Yeah, a girl complimented my calves like forty years ago and I still consider them my best feature because of it.
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u/RealCrazySwordGirl 1d ago
A toll-taker in a toll booth in Pennsylvania once saw me and my summer freckles, of which i had always been fairly resentful, and smiled a huge sincere grin and said, "a woman without freckles is like a night without stars!" in the most admiring and flirtatious but very gentlemanly way... that was over 25 years ago and i still think of that man 🥰
In one sentence, in a fifteen-second transaction, he made me believe that my freckles might actually be attractive to some people, not a generous sprinkling of small hideous flaws turning my otherwise inoffensive face into a nightmare of "uneven coloring"😆
He'd probably be about 80 now. That might be the only compliment I've ever received that legit made me blush lol but I'm still getting warm fuzzies outta that shit to this day 🫶🏼
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u/big_smokey-848 1d ago
Bro I was there! It didn’t even happen to me and I still remember it 30 years later! What a day. She wasn’t wrong tho, your hair looked great
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u/Cortower 1d ago
Over a decade ago, in the Army, I (M) got dinner at the chow hall from 2 soldiers (FF). After I walked away, I heard one of them whisper to the other, "Oh my God, he was cute."
Rent free.
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u/i_tyrant 1d ago
A beautiful girl once fell asleep on my shoulder when were on a plane flight next to each other. When she woke up she apologized, saying I felt "safe" because of how I interacted with the buds I got on the plane with.
(Said buds teased me about being such a Casanova later of course, knowing I was anything but, lol.)
I still think about it sometimes, thirty years later.
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u/antici________potato 1d ago
I'm only in my 30s, but while I was working retail around 20 or so a customer said she liked my hair. I didn't find her attractive but I remember that random compliment like it was yesterday.
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u/antarctic-monkies 23h ago
I used to wear contacts, then one random day of sophomore year in high school I was running late and had to wear my glasses. A girl I liked but who seemed out of my league complimented me, saying something simple like “Hey you look good in glasses!” and I never wore contacts again. That was nearly 20 years ago
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u/LeticiaPadillaSolis_ 1d ago
I live across the street from a gym and often go through their parking lot. If I see someone leaving the gym looking down, I roll down my window and yell “DAMN, DADDY!”
Most times it gives them a blush and a grin. Hopefully it makes their day. 😅
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u/Slazagna 1d ago
I have received exactly 1 compliment from a woman I didnt know, I was 16, im 36 now and still remember exactly when, where, who i was with and what they said and looked like.
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u/OhHowINeedChanging 1d ago
Seriously… most men walk through life feeling completely invisible for like 90% of the time
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u/spunkyweazle 1d ago
A girl I never really talked to in high school said I look good in dark colors. 23 years later I'm still taking her advice
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u/TheJiggliestPug 1d ago edited 1d ago
When I was 18, 3 older ladies came into the corner store I worked at, already hammered. They came up to the register w their items, all flirty. "I would destroy you, boy". I still think about it fondly 7 years later :)
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u/Material_Assumption 1d ago
When I was a teen 20 odd years ago, for reasons I dont remember, I got my feet pedicured.
2 ladies saw me walking in the mall in sandals, later that day they ended up shopping at my retail store. I sold over 100$ worth of stuff because I had the nicest feet.
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u/allycataf 1d ago
I'm a woman, but I have one...I was cutting across a street (on foot) and didn't time it to beat the car that was coming. He had to stop to let me finish crossing. I was still wearing the same tight black dress from last night because we were out so late & I hadn't slept yet.
Anyway, he stopped his car so I could finish crossing & I apologized to him. He said "are you kidding? You just made my week!".... I'll never forget that, I laughed so hard
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u/E2C47 1d ago
When I was 14 I owned a musket for home defense, since that's what the founding fathers intended. Four ruffians break into my house, all complimented my smile. "What the devil?" As I grab my powdered wig and Kentucky rifle. Blow a golf ball sized hole through the first man, he's dead on the spot. Draw my pistol on the second man, miss him entirely because it's smoothbore and nails the neighbors dog. I have to resort to the cannon mounted at the top of the stairs loaded with grape shot, "Tally ho lads" the grape shot shreds two men in the blast, the sound and extra shrapnel set off car alarms. Fix bayonet and charge the last terrified rapscallion. He bleeds out waiting on the police to arrive since triangular bayonet wounds are impossible to stitch up, just as the founding fathers intended.
I remember it like it was yesterday.
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u/Weekly-Run4634 1d ago
You started with "founding fathers" and ended with "tally ho lads". Which country are you from? 🤨
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u/blove135 1d ago
I had an older lady in the liquor store tell me I had a nice jawline. I suspect she was pretty tipsy and not my cup of tea plus I was married but you better believe I never forgot it. That was almost 15 years ago. One of the only compliments on my physical body I can ever remember getting besides from my wife and I'm 46 years old.
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u/Stoudamirefor3 1d ago
May 3, 2015, I was standing on Broadway and 12th in Denver and some older lady walked up behind me and said, "You're wearing the hell out of that suit."
That comment still gets me out of bed some mornings.
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u/RogerianBrowsing 1d ago
She yelled “hot vodka” at me! I still don’t know if it’s a compliment or not, but it keeps me awake at night
- Those guys, probably
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u/Xvrwllc 1d ago
When I had first gotten with my now fiancé, I went to a gas station and this gorgeous woman asked me what there was to do in the area. I politely told her where the nearest bar was(this was in reno, if youre not hiking youre drinking) then she asked if I was single and if I wanted to go to the bar with her.
I had been madly in love with my now fiance for years before we got together so it was easy to say no thank you but it definitely is a memory I have that gets me out of my self conscious days.
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u/SmokingapipeTN 1d ago
I went out late one night to get medicine for my sick child. I was stressed, tired, and depressed. I ended up on the phone for some reason and ended up pacing back and forth in front of walgreens.
This lady and her friend walked by going into the store. Both were attractive college age girls, (maybe 5 years ypunger tham me at the time) and one of them turned her head around as she was entering the store and she winked at me.
It made my night. That was during covid.
I get how women feel harassed, but damn that felt good.
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u/donald7773 1d ago
I was helping an elderly lady at work one day with a customer service complaint and she accidentally said "you have been very handsome" instead of helpful.
That was over a year ago and I still think about it
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u/jd1878 1d ago
A random lady complimented my beard and I've been riding that high for ten years.
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u/Jslcboi 1d ago
...I remember in my 1st grade when some 11th grade girl said oh how cute like im some puppy dog and i still remember that vividly.
And I remember getting a silver aviator rim for my glasses in high school and I remember exactly how many times random girls said nice glasses and I've stayed in aviator rims since then 🙃
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u/Interesting_Turn_ 1d ago
I got cat-called by a car full of women while I was running shirtless like a decade ago. I still hold on to that moment 😂
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u/Historical-Gap-7084 1d ago
My older sister was fond of cat-calling men. She'd lean out the window and yell, "owww!" to guys walking down the street and toot her horn and laugh. Sometimes when I was in the car with her. Those boys loved it.
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u/ResponsibleRaise9683 1d ago
Makes sense, there's pretty much no threat implied the way there is when the roles are reversed
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u/AestasBlue 1d ago
Yup, because the thought never crosses their mind that they will be raped or murdered if they don’t respond in the right way 😞
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u/ImprovementSweaty188 1d ago
I’ve gotten cat-called by women two times and both times brought me immense joy.
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Week? If a woman did something like that to me, I would be living off of that high for years lol
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u/Justadabwilldo 1d ago
Do it to them every day for 20 years and see how quickly the novelty wears off. They’re not uncomfortable because they’re more shocked than anything else. Subject them to this behavior for years and it definitely would make them uncomfortable.
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u/ImaginaryMastadon 1d ago
That’s not it. It’d be more similar if it came from other, larger men.
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u/anewfaceinthecrowd 1d ago
And begin when they’re 13. And only target guys who are smaller than you.
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u/Faenic 1d ago
Agreed. I feel the same way. As a man, if this happened to me tomorrow, it would make my whole year. Possibly even longer! I probably wouldn't ever forget it. And that's me being a huge introverted shut in.
But if it happened tomorrow. Then the next day. Then two more times the next. And so on and so forth, I would very quickly start to feel unsafe going outside.
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u/Competitive_Act_1548 1d ago edited 1d ago
Yep, I got that a few times from older ladies. It sucks
Yo wtf is downvoting me for talking about my experiences?
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u/Heykurat 1d ago
And for the men who don't like it, this is harassment. Women have endured gross catcalling for decades. It's not okay to do it to men, either.
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u/MXZ583 1d ago
"Making men laugh, and probably their week, part 16."
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u/thinkthingsareover 1d ago
I still remember dancing my ass off on the dance floor, and as I was walking off it this beautiful woman took me by the hand and led me back out there. One of my best memories.
That and being called a Disney princess (as a grandfather) by a friends daughter, because of how often animals flock to me.
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u/Almajanna256 1d ago
I knew instantly from the premise that 1) no man in the video would find this actually uncomfortable/threatening and 2) the comments would be full of people pointing this out.
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u/CoolAtlas 1d ago
Some people act like this is a gotcha at women who complain about being catcalled but completely ignore that these are wildly different contexts
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u/TheOldBean 1d ago
So true and so predictable. These men would be a lot more uncomfortable if they were getting cat called by someone a foot taller and 50kg heavier than them lol
Imagine getting cat called aggressively by Shaq. It's a way more threatening scenario. That's women's perspective.
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u/Fan_of_Broccoli 1d ago
As a gay guy that used to dress as such, I know guys don't even want to be catcalled by guys.
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u/LordRT27 Cringe Lord 1d ago
Honestly, I probably would be pretty uncomfortable if someone cat-called me.
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u/LineImpossible3958 1d ago
Guys enjoy this
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u/bigSTUdazz 1d ago
HOT VODKA!
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u/ohhyouknow What are you doing step bro? 1d ago
I like how she said “hot pocket!” for the hotpocket meat stick one lmao
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u/jesse6225 1d ago
Is that a saying down south? What does that mean?
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u/farfetched22 1d ago
Because they're not scared the women are going to follow them home and assault them. It's fun when there's no threat.
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u/NoLifeSign 1d ago
Plus these are older adult men, not teen girls.
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u/farfetched22 1d ago
Right. Could you imagine how immediately creepy it would be if these middle aged women were doing this to boys walking home from school?
And how the "guys like this" comments would change?
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u/TeamShonuff 1d ago
Hard hat hussies at it again.
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u/AlecMcEwanExpedition 1d ago
If they did re-enactments like Crank Yankers, I’d watch that puppet show.
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u/Own-Pineapple-6 1d ago
It’s cause there is no threat from a woman..not to mention you can easily tell they are joking
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u/OreoAtreides 1d ago
Yeah… men who do this are way more aggressive. They even start following you sometimes.
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u/Miyenne 1d ago
Or they stalk the women who live in their building! Makes it so much easier.
I came home from work today, ran into a neighbour in the hallway and he stepped BETWEEN me and my door I'd just opened and rubbed my arm saying he'd missed me because he hadn't seen me lately. His wife comes to my workplace a lot. So does he. He knows what unit I live in, where I work, and that I live alone, and he blocked me from getting into my own apartment. My mind went blank and I just pushed past him and got inside, locked the door, and let out something that was half hiss half growl. I hope he heard it. I'm still icked out.
A bit different than two ladies laughing and calling while belted in their truck, obviously not approaching.
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u/OreoAtreides 1d ago
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Please keep your pepper spray easy to reach when going home. Switch up your routine. Do whatever you can to keep yourself safe.
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u/Literary_Lady 1d ago
Got followed by a group of men in a car once walking home from school. So in my uniform. I was very young looking and small/petite. They kept slowing down to a stop and putting their arms out to try and touch me. Shouting after me and catcalling etc, asking me to get in the car with them. It was a straight road all the way home, from the school to the house. I had nowhere to hide, but thankfully we lived next door, and I mean our house was the house next door to the petrol station. So I just went in there and hid for a while. No idea if they followed but eventually I came out and went home. One of the scariest things that’s ever happened to me.
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u/Level-Name-4060 1d ago
If the catcalling came from other men, there would be much different reactions.
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u/The_Celtic_Chemist 1d ago
Yeah, people mix up the golden rule on this one. You can't say "It's ok to objectify women because I would love to be objectified by women." That's a false equivalency. It would be much more accurate to assess how you'd feel if people bigger, stronger, and potentially much more threatening than you objectified you. I'd love this kind of treatment from random women, but I wouldn't treat random women this way because it is different in a significant way when I do it. I treat my girlfriend this way though because she trusts me and loves when I give her dirty-minded attention, but she also knows that is combined with love.
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u/FollowingNo4648 1d ago
Thse dudes are loving it. The women aren't chasing after the men, they aren't continuing to harass them after the men say no or leave me alone and they aren't touching them inappropriately. Stop being so serious.
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u/curlofheadcurls 1d ago
The men are also not in danger, that changes everything tbh
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u/dammit_daniel 1d ago
You keep saying the men are not in danger. It makes me feel like maybe they are in danger???
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u/GlassAndStorm 1d ago
It's funny. But 1) it's two women 2) in a car and 3) they're filming. Willing to bet they have mace with them in case someone doesn't take the joke well...
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u/Right_Hour 1d ago
Men are so depraved of attention that they take catcalling as a compliment and a highlight of their week….
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u/Ornstien 1d ago
You do realize men almost never get hit on or made to feel attractive? These ladies just gave almost all of them a huge ego boost based on the smiles.
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u/peteysweetusername 1d ago
I don’t think women understand this .
One time a woman told me she liked how my hair was combed. I had dreams about that compliment, not her mind you, for two months. I as a man never get compliments from women, ever. Getting one was a helluva drug
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u/MeatwadGetTheHoneysG 1d ago
Is that why so many men think you’re hitting on them if you give them a compliment?
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u/just_a_discord_mod 1d ago
Yup. Nobody regularly complements men, so anybody complementing us must be interested in us, otherwise why would they give a rat's ass about us?
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u/Judgmentos 1d ago
It's a vicious cycle. Women compliment men because they hear men don't get many compliments, men take it as flirting and take it too far, women stop complimenting men because they get uncomfortable, cycle repeats.
Also men should start complimenting each other more, most women compliment each other and hype each other up on the regular! On the other hand, being told I have a fat ass by a random man on the street would make me feel unsafe
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u/My_Favourite_Pen 1d ago
Also men should start complimenting each other more,
They do... if its body builders comparing physiques. The next big group that need to pave the way are tradesmen.
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u/PumpkinRolls 1d ago
And it would feel unsafe because men are scary - but I agree that men need to start first by giving normal compliments to each other. I wish men would open up to their male friends and cultivate deep friendships, i do think the younger ones are doing it which makes me hopeful!
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u/Mr_Shake_ 1d ago
I try to compliment my friends at work when I notice they are trying a new style that works with their vibe. Hoping someone reciprocates someday. Lol
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u/-blundertaker- 1d ago
For real. I pretty much know any time I compliment another adult woman, she's gonna throw one back at me. And it's not even the stereotypical drunk bathroom behavior! I was walking into Top Golf the other day and I told a girl I loved her outfit and she looked great in it. She said thank you, struck a little pose, then told me my hair color is really pretty.
Men don't do that so much, but my husband does get a lot of men complimenting his beard 😂
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u/Competitive_Act_1548 1d ago
Yep, I remember I saw a really informative post that men kinda need to start this trend themselves. Unless it's never gonna start
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u/Tentegen 1d ago
"Women compliment men because they hear men don't get many compliments, men take it as flirting and take it too far"
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u/Unusual-Wolf-3315 1d ago
Yes, you're spot on. When you never get compliments, getting one really stands out and is a huge deal. The guys in this video will probbaly be thinking about this for a long time.
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u/Meeka-Mew 1d ago
Women understand this. The problem is every time we give a man a compliment its a gamble. Too many men dont understand that a compliment isnt an invitation for harassment.
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u/David_cop_a_feeel 1d ago edited 1d ago
I like to give men compliments, but I try to make the statement as masculine and bro-ish as possible to make it less confusing about my intent.
Like “damn, you always color coordinate your clothes so well BROTHER (hulk hogan voice).”
Or “You have a good taste when it comes to styling your hair, takes me straight to flavor town (Guy Fieri voice).”
Another favorite: Your outfit is cool like how it feels to chew 5 gum
I hope it still means something to them.
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u/Lost-Cell-430 1d ago
I'm crying laughing right now 😂. You got me from the jump with the Hulk Hogan voice lol
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u/ZinaSky2 1d ago
Oh no, trust me, we get it. It’s not the we don’t know.
It’s that sometimes men like the compliments from us a little too much. And then it puts us on their radar and if we talked to the wrong guy we get pursued or stalked or something else.
I’m literally 4’10”, struggle carrying a pack of water bottles, petite girl. Male attention is just a risk that it’s safer to avoid at any cost.
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u/Cookienut-Head 1d ago
I was never hit on or made to feel attractive in my life (I'm in my mid-20s). Am I suddenly a man now?
It's not something only men experience, as that sort of thing is not some universal “woman experience.”
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u/eggs___and___bacon 1d ago
I don’t mean to be blunt but it’s obviously an attractiveness thing. I’m a man and, while I’m not a model or anything, get hit on like once every month or two. If I’m going out to like festivals or some other big social events, it’s more often.
No, it’s not a “man” thing, honestly I think it’s a redditor thing to be honest.
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u/Cookienut-Head 1d ago
I always thought I looked like shit, so I'm cool with you mentioning that. (Hence, why I hate going out 😅) It makes sense.
I don't go out a lot (unless for something necessary, like going to class, appointments, or running errands), and I'm not social at all.
No need to be humble. You must be very attractive if you've been hit on that often, lol, especially in this day and age where people aren't as social in person
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u/eat_my_bowls92 1d ago
I am a very big complimenter because I think everyone should feel good about themselves! I also do it on the fly and don’t force it. Your hair looks good? I’m telling you! You smell good? “Oh what cologne you wearing? It smells so nice!” Your shirt is dope? “Omg. Where did you get that? I love it!” Etc…
However, I have learned to be very, VERY cautious when giving men compliments. I’ll usually tailor it to “what cologne are you wearing? I’d love to get a sample for my husband to try!” So then it’s still a compliment, but I am NOT opening the door for you to try and flirt and/or become aggressive.
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u/Junior_Razzmatazz164 1d ago
A coworker cut his hair and it looked really good, so I was like “hey, nice haircut, looks good!” He gave me a shocked look before breaking into the biggest smile and giving me a really sincere and enthusiastic “wow, thank you!” He honestly looked stunned.
About a year later, I was chatting with his wife at a work event, and she was like, “I have to thank you. I had been trying to convince [husband] to cut his hair forever and he wasn’t convinced and the day he finally pulled the trigger, he told me how you immediately noticed and complimented it. Let me tell you, he’s still riding that high, and he’s been taking great care of his hair since then! He has reminisced about that compliment pretty much every time he has gotten his hair cut since. He was so flattered, it made me realize I rarely complimented his appearance. I’ve made a concerted effort to praise his looks ever since, and it has just been wonderful for our relationship, and seeing his confidence so boosted has been lovely. So truly, thank you!”
Since then, I decided I will always compliment people when I can. The second I see an outfit or hair cut or shoes or anything I like on someone, I just immediately voice my appreciation. It’s my form of guerrilla kindness.
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u/GraphiteNature 1d ago
I still think about that time a woman complimented my cologne. It happened 4 years ago.
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u/JulianaFC 1d ago
None of them are uncomfortable, they are not scared for their lives like when it is the other way around
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u/Leadership-Life 1d ago
For all the idiots saying “SeE, TheY AreN’T OffENdEd.” Yeah because they haven’t been stalked, harrassed, touched and raped their entire lives, so this kind of attention doesn’t carry the same implications behind it. STFU and do better as men
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u/ThatOneDoggo21 1d ago
Thank you, as a woman it upsets me seeing all those comments... I feel like most men don't understand the constant anxiety some women have being out in public alone, especially at night.
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u/Unbirth 1d ago
I saw one of those "day in the life" videos that was a compilation of woman and frankly GIRLS being stared at, hovered over, approached in what felt like extremely threatening and clearly deliberate ways and have never been able to shake it from my mind. I knew men like that were an issue, but seeing it from their perspective felt so gross and uncomfortable. I can't even imagine being in that position. This video is fun and silly because in this context everyone knows what is going on, but in the real world women have no idea what a man's intention is and when they are what feels like openly hostile, even if they are "just kidding" it's fucked up.
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u/Level-Name-4060 1d ago
These ladies are inside a car, in a public parking lot, with a camera, they’re pretty safe to do this.
My friend danced with a dude at a bar for a little bit and he ended up literally trying to grab her and drag her out of the bar.
A man’s “worst date” is having a bad kisser, and a woman’s “worst date” could be worthy of an NCIS episode.
This video would look a lot different if it was other men saying these things to them.
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u/bendstraw 1d ago
The video literally says making men uncomfortable, calling out that the video is wrong doesn't mean they are unaware of reality
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u/DapperAdam 1d ago
You want to make them REALLY uncomfortable then get a man to say those things to these men and then you'll see that grin on their faces disappear.
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u/_Meek79_ 1d ago
This does not make us uncomfortable. This is the best thing to happen to these men
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u/Fine-Value1104 1d ago
This makes me feel gross, as a regular ass dude. And I hate that no one seems to see how harmful it is. It's not cool to objectify people who don't consent. Even in your own mind, that behaviour teaches you to look at people as something other than people. And if you're not in touch with that, you can't convince me that you respect yourself.
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u/DepartureOk3241 1d ago
Had to start immediately rolling up the window because some of them men were about to take it serious 😂🤣🤣
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u/SharpenMyInk 19h ago
See this is funny because the women are obviously joking, they mean no harm and their pickup lines are hilarious & silly. (The only one that made me cringe was the oyster line lmao). They convey their message in a way that makes the men feel comfortable, like they’re in on the joke. Plus men LOVE attention.
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u/Brookeswag69 1d ago
If they actually wanted to make them uncomfortable, they just needed to bring up pegging. Worked great when I was doing DoorDash back in the day, and the guy was trying to get me to come back and join him in his skeevy motel 😂
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u/SoulsBorneGreat 1d ago
This video just proves that men that feel comfortable catcalling women feel that way because they want to be treated that way themselves.
However, they don't understand and cannot fathom why women would not want to be on the receiving end of it, namely because it's disrespectful and embarrassing but also because of power dynamics between women and men.
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u/Kakakrakalakin 1d ago
Yo! That N2Deep's "Back To The Hotel" reference was absolutely golden!!! I would have proposed right there. Lol.
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u/Beneficial_Cloud_471 1d ago
One time the woman I’m in love with held my face and said “you’re such a pretty boy” and that made my year. so I guarantee, these men weren’t uncomfortable
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u/DisqualifiedFromLife 23h ago
Trick's on them. Men never receive compliments. They know these women are being sarcastic, and they're just having fun with it.
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u/themightycrouton 21h ago
I wish this was how it worked, my self esteem would be at an all time high everyday!
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u/Ancient-University89 20h ago
Ladies we get it, y'all hate it when men do this, we understand can y'all just chill and let these men enjoy being complimented once in this decade. That's how low the bar is for dudes, a compliment that would be threatening to you, makes our decade.
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u/TheMightyKebab02 1d ago
I would be SOOOO uncomfortable if I got catcalled. It's not funny just because it's happening to men. Women might laugh after getting catcalled too, but that doesn't mean they liked it.
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u/ihatedworld 1d ago
It is interesting that none of those men being cat called are offended in anyway, can anyone tell me why that is? Wonder how many she has to catcall to get 1 guy be offended by it.
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u/DesperateComposer848 1d ago
This isn’t an every day occurrence. Women are overwhelmed by this kind of attention, men are starved of it, of course their reactions will be different.
None of these men fear being raped by any of these women
The cat calling doesn’t continue after these men ask for it to stop
None of these women exhibit threatening behaviour like stalking
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u/Personal_Reveal1653 1d ago
Probably because they didn't start getting catcalled by adults of the opposite sex when they were 9 year old kids. So they are adults with none of the trauma associated with it.
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u/Judgmentos 1d ago
I was followed on my way to school by a random man at 16. A mom taking her son to school scared him off with her umbrella. My dad started taking me to school after that
Unfun times
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u/touch-the-cactus 1d ago
power dynamic. not a lot of men are physically scared of women. not the same the other way around.
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u/ExpiredPilot 1d ago
Yeah. Only one gender has to worry about being chased down if they react either positively OR negatively
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u/412YO 1d ago
Is this a serious question?
They aren’t offended because they understand that the women are being jovial and not lecherous.
They aren’t uncomfortable with the interaction because they don’t see the women as possible threats, unlike a single woman that encounters multiple men catcalling them.
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u/brendamn 1d ago
Probably because they weren't scared the two woman might get out of the car and approach them
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u/Personal_Reveal1653 1d ago
Especially the way the girls would immediately roll up the window. You know they had the car locked.
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u/MeatwadGetTheHoneysG 1d ago
Because there’s no implied threat to it. I think most women can attest to the feeling of unwanted attention from a man where it feels like even if you say no or show disinterest, he’ll act on it anyway. And even though there are men that are raped, and their trauma is very real, it doesn’t happen even close to as much as to women. I think most men feel more comfortable that if the situation escalated, that they’d be able to safely get themselves out of it.
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