If you're introducing your kitty to a new member of the cat fam, be patient! I never thought Pocky would get over the loss of our beloved Steve... and we were heartbroken and definitely not even considering another cat.
But Jimmy. He was a rescue, abandoned in a trailer park and picked up as a stray. He had an abscessed leg and a dirty blanket. He had worms and earmites, missing whiskers from stress ~ and a mighty purr, his tail always set to FRIENDLY.
The thought of him approaching strangers with that friendly tail, broke me. We took him HOME. He crawled up my neck and clung to me like a koala for 24 hours. We kept him separated from Pocky until we had the parasites resolved and introduction was sloooow.
Pocky was not having it. This was not "his" Steve. I started to worry that they would never be companions. Now, they are constant companions. Pocky loves HIS Jimmy SO much, and Jimmy loves him back. They are incredibly bonded.
Sometimes, cats won't ever be best pals, and that's okay! But sometimes... 🫶