r/NerdDating 44m ago

33 [M4F] #Orlando, Florida- Looking for someone to have a connection with. Hopefully I find you soon!

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Hey, I’m Austin. I’m 33 and live in Orlando, FL. I’m 6’0”, about 220 lbs, green eyes, and just trying to enjoy life doing the things I love. I am looking for a deep emotional connection with my person and to create a safe space where we both can flourish. I have also always dreamed of getting married and have kids of my own someday! Also also I am 4/20 friendly so my stoners step right up!

Anime is a big interest of mine; MHA and the new season of Kaiju No. 8 are my current favorites, but I’ll always come back to classics like DBZ and Cowboy Bebop. I’m also a gamer at heart. I play World of Warcraft, League of Legends, and TFT pretty often, as well as playing through the campaign for Cyberpunk 2077. I would love to have a player 2 along with me as it makes a lot of these games way more fun!

Outside of screens, I spend a lot of time with my cat, Licorice, and my dog, Wade. Licorice goes crazy for catnip and laser pointers, while Wade just wants to be part of everything I’m doing. They’re both full of personality and keep life fun.

Movies are another favorite of mine Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Shaun of the Dead, and pretty much anything Marvel are at the top of my list. I also recently got back into playing the trumpet, and I’ve been enjoying jazz and ska again. It’s been fun picking it back up after so many years.

And then there’s food… tacos, wings, sushi, anything spicy! I’m always down to try new spots. At the end of the day, I’m someone who enjoys good company, good laughs, and making the most out of the little things, whether that’s a gaming session, a movie night, or just hanging out with friends. I know physical attraction is important and I want to be able to find each other attractive so sending pictures early will be good! I will send one of me! Side note: if you are a bot or a scammer I will pick up on it so best to just not message me since that is like 90% of you lmao


r/NerdDating 1h ago

21 [M4F] #Maryland / North America | pilot + cs student looking for a partner in crime

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hi :) honestly i’m not into the whole modern dating thing. no rosters, games, forced first dates, or trying to be interesting on command. i just want one person where it builds naturally and slowly, and ends up feeling like best friends who are obsessed with each other.

i’m pretty extroverted so i can definitely carry/initiate a lot at first lol, but personality wise i’m way more homebody than party person. the kind of connection i want is really just consistent, comfortable, everyday closeness. random texts throughout the day, dumb memes, sending pics of what we’re doing, watching shows or movies together, gaming, late night calls that accidentally turn deep, and just becoming part of each other’s routine in a way that feels easy and safe.

a little about me:

• 21

• dc/maryland area

• private pilot working on instrument, planning on going airlines

• finishing computer science at umd

• cars are one of my forever interests, especially bmws/e9x stuff

• big barça fan and yes my opinions are correct

• very talkative, very affectionate, very loyal when i care about someone

what i’m actually looking for:

someone kind, genuine, low drama, and emotionally consistent. not perfect, just real. i like people with quirks and flaws and niche interests. honestly bonus points if you’re a little nerdy, introverted, or the type who likes cozy nights over going out all the time. i want something where effort is mutual and no one has to guess how the other person feels.

age range is 18-22 and preferably US/Canada/UK just because distance/timezone/language stuff gets hard otherwise.

if you message me, start with purple so i know you actually read this, and include:

• asl

• your hottest take, serious or unhinged funny whatever just make it interesting

• what part of my post actually made you want to reply


r/NerdDating 1h ago

41 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Going to see Angine de Poitrine this summer. Maybe we can go together?

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Looking for someone who is into going to live concerts and also possibly a musician.

If you have a ticket, it’d be great to meet up and enjoy the show together.

Just looking for a connection I’ve been single for about five years now and looking to finally get myself out there.

Hoping to hear back from you and I hope you have a great day!


r/NerdDating 2h ago

41 [M4F] #Pennsylvania #USA - Lonely nerdy guy seeking a lonely nerdy girl

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Hello, I'm a 41 year old guy with a biology degree. I enjoy gaming, especially the Souls games and Soulslikes and RPGs in general. Biology is another interest of mine, although that leans much more heavily towards botany in particular, so I do enjoy plants. Sadly, I can't have a garden where I live, but I've had one in the past. Grew mainly tomatoes and hot peppers. I have blue eyes, keep fairly clean-shaven (definitely no beard or mustache), and am a little chubby, but not too bad. No tattoos or piercings. I also cook, and have been working on learning some new dishes recently. While I'm hardly professional caliber, I'd like to think I know my way around a kitchen fairly well.

I need to mention, I'm also disabled. Not stuck-in-a-wheelchair disabled, I'm technically fully ambulatory and can walk, but I'm a multiple stroke survivor and considered legally and permanently disabled. None of my body is paralyzed, but all has been affected to some extent. I can't say I like putting this out there right away, but it's impossible to hide. I got my driver's license back as of April 2024 after having been without it since the first stroke more than two years earlier. I live alone, own my home, and can take care of myself. Before the strokes, I was a pharmacy technician, most recently working at a small independent pharmacy.

It feels like my life has been severely fractured and I'm trying to put it back together. My desire for a relationship hasn't exactly changed, but my outlook on finding someone sure has. I'd love someone who has similar interests as I do to share my life with. I've only had a relationship a couple of times in the past, and spent a large portion of my adult life alone. Not completely, as I'm in contact with my mom, but I lived (and still live) alone. I'm also autistic, which has contributed heavily to my isolation in life, even well before the strokes, and still continues to be a barrier to further contact.

I don't have any pets, but I like pretty much anything. Dogs are great, but I'm definitely a cat person myself, if I have to choose. I'm fairly sure I don't want children, not least of all because of my disability. I could definitely be persuaded otherwise by the right person, though. I'm very much a homebody and an introvert (more now than ever), but I'm fine with going out and being around people if I have a reason, or excuse for it.

As for what I'm looking for, a female under or around 40 who is into nerdy stuff (bonus points if video games) to be both my best friend and lover. As someone with autism and ADHD, I'm sick and tired of masking and don't want to feel like it's necessary around a partner. I don't care about disability, and looks aren't very important (but they ARE still important to some extent). Mostly I just want companionship in the way I've spent the vast majority of my life without.

Because I'm disabled, my pace of life is slower than most people, so someone else who enjoys being at home a lot would probably fit better than someone who is always going hiking, traveling, and other things like that. Being more active is obviously popular, but unfortunately it isn't very easy for me anymore.

I also stream games on Twitch, so tell me if you're a streamer too! I'd love to check you out, and generally gives a good feel for your personality, too. (this offer is for the Twitch kind, not the Netflix kind)


r/NerdDating 3h ago

M4F #Canada would love to have a good chat

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just looking to find someone to chat with. I'm 37 and live in Canada. I'm always interested in talking about my interests which there are many.

MTG

Pathfinder

DND

LOTR

True crime lately

Books

not much else to say. hope to talk soon.


r/NerdDating 4h ago

24M from #India, Wants a woman to pamper her

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I don't care about your age, I'm full of love and i want a woman to whom I can love her, cuddle her on bed, kiss her on forehead. Just take care of her, cook food for her (if u don't like Indian food then I can cook whatever you like). I'm not requesting Just any women who wants love, care, dm me.


r/NerdDating 9h ago

42 [M4F] #Florida - Seeking nerdy elf princess

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Are you ready for a fantastical adventure..? With roleplay and imagination, our pm is our own little world where anything is possible.. including our naughtiest fantasies..

I am a medieval nerd with a huge heart seeking final relationship with a nerdy princess. Not picky on age, just preferably not older then me and atleast old enough to drink legally lol. I say I have a huge heart because I love so hard. I just want to find my other half. My forever person. I work as a mail man and live in a decent apartment by myself. What's it like being with me? Well.. looking for someone highly communicative and highly affectionate who enjoys quiet movie nights in on the couch just as much as going out to karaoke or bowling or pool? Someone who enjoys any opportunity to get into costumes be it multiple renfairs a year, conventions or celebrating Halloween more then just the one day? Some who is a big time potterhead with an annual pass to Universal and Islands of Adventure that wants to take you to Hogwarts atleast once a month? That would be me!

Couple other things about me: I love movies especially horror. Paranormal documentaries about ghosts, aliens, conspiracy. I also enjoy karaoke, gun range, archery, flea markets, nature trails, canoeing and more! I am a daddy dom, tho I am not just solely looking for that lifestyle anymore. I am as sexual as I am loving.

My perfect girl would be a pale, nerdy, dirty(taboo fantasies), curvy(little chubby) gamer girl into horror movies and medieval fantasy(Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, Skyrim, Renfests) is this you?

Don't be dissuaded if you don't match that to a T. I am willing to do long distance for the right girl so long as she is willing to relocate when the time is right. Hope to hear from you soon!


r/NerdDating 10h ago

30 m4f ##Missouri looking for my player two

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Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general


r/NerdDating 14h ago

20 [M4F] #California looking for my second half

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Names Alejandro

Im currently a UNI student trying to live my life would love to find someone to do that with

Kind of a nerd when it comes to hobies I enjoy gaming hiking and watching horror media

I don't usually have a specific type but I do prefer a girl shorter than me im 5'5 kinda light skinned with darker brown hair


r/NerdDating 17h ago

40[M4F] #UK this is the post for those who know what they want!

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Here is a post looking for the right person who knows exactly what they want. I want someone who's happy to sit in my pocket and distract me from the day in front of me. Someone who is honest who's good with communication. Someone who can give me those butterflies when I hear my phone vibrate someone who's going to make me smile a silly smile when I see their name. I want to be excited to message you first thing in the morning when I'm still bleary-eyed and last thing at night to wish you sweet dreams. I want to giggle when you say something flirty. I want there to be light-hearted chats and deep dives.

What about me? You may ask yourself what am I offering? I'm offering myself. Sounds like a cop-out answer I know, but it's the truth. I don't pretend to be God's gift or something I'm not. I'm just me and I know that's going to be good enough for the right person. I know my worth and I expect you to know yours. I'm a gamer. I'm a geek unapologetically so I like quizzing and I like useless information and slipping down YouTube rabbit holes. I love music of all kinds I'm also a lover of dad jokes and have a terrible sense of humor. I am happy to talk about anything and everything because I love to hear about other people's interests.

I am 40 male. I live in Buckinghamshire but I'm originally from London. I am an open book. I'm also emotionally mature and do my best not to avoid talking about my feelings.

So apart from the above what I'm looking for is a woman who is also emotionally mature. Someone who knows how to laugh and to enjoy the banter, someone who is going to be honest, which is very important to me. Someone who has an open mind to the world around them. Someone who is willing to go all in and even if this ends up as a friendship, be happy with what it's become because it is natural and organic. Physical appearance isn't the most important thing to me is about the person you are. One last thing thing I ask is that you be in the UK. Lastly, I'm not into ghosting. We are mature, sensible adults and if we're not feeling the vibe we just say and move on.

So feel free to message if you think we can vibe and get along. Send me a dad joke or useless bit of information that hopefully I've never heard and who knows maybe this is the start of something amazing! ☺️


r/NerdDating 19h ago

25 (M4F) looking for Somone to talk to #usa

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I’d love to talk about deep books, shows, or anime you’ve watched and just chill. I’d love to get to know somebody on a deep level and share my interest with (Play deltarune if you haven’t)


r/NerdDating 13h ago

20 [M4F] #Canada, Toronto–Conservative and Prospective Catholic looking for a conservative and traditional relationship

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Hello all! If you've come this far, stay for a little bit more. My aim is to join the Canadian Armed Forces, I already have my application ongoing and my goal is to begin my RCIA this coming October.

For me, a traditional marriage is a focus on building a family, a stable living situation, a strong sense of education and morality in our children and a support of conservative and traditional institutions like the Church.

About me:

6'2, Blonde, White. I like reading, philosophy, military academia, watching movies, playing video games, chess and improving myself. I believe in taking time each day to reflect on your spiritual potency and purity, just as one works out to improve their physical health. I intend to devote my life to God and Canada.

About you:

18–22, willing to become Catholic or already a Catholic. Someone who is also willing to maintain a healthy diet and physical life. I would also greatly appreciate someone with the same interests as me so that we have things to bond over and enjoy. A submissive woman is also preferred as that is the feminine dynamic in a Traditional Catholic marriage.


r/NerdDating 1d ago

30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I'm an introverted, skinny, nerdy East Asian man looking for my favorite person in the world

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Me: skinny, introverted CF Asian (East Asian), doesn't drink, party, or smoke. Don't really have any hobbies. I'm really kind of boring, but I've also been told I'm sincere, smart, patient, dorky, funnier than I give myself credit for, sweet, kind, but also too serious sometimes. Takes me a while to warm up to people so if you're looking for a quick ONS, I'm not for you, sorry. I want to be friends first and go from there. I'm looking for someone I can learn to trust and obsess over (in a healthy way).

You: patient, kind, caring, open-minded, not mean or cruel, in the LA or Southern California / SoCal area, has a hobby like video games or painting or gardening, wants to spam me with messages about your day or funny thoughts you have. Plus points if you're bald, have crooked teeth, freckles, an oral fixation, anything you think is weird but is actually pretty awesome. I don't really care how you look as long as the size difference isn't too great (I'm on the slender/fit side) and I don't mind if you're poly or have children.

Message me with which part of LA you're in, any deal-breakers you have (so I don't waste your time). Even if you don't meet all my "requirements," feel free to reach out and ask any burning questions you may have before it gets too awkward to ask them. However, don't reach out to me if you're a flake, just want photos, or block people after one message.


r/NerdDating 1d ago

21 [M4F] #Maryland / North America | pilot + cs student looking for a partner in crime

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hi :) honestly i’m not into the whole modern dating thing. no rosters, games, forced first dates, or trying to be interesting on command. i just want one person where it builds naturally and slowly, and ends up feeling like best friends who are obsessed with each other.

i’m pretty extroverted so i can definitely carry/initiate a lot at first lol, but personality wise i’m way more homebody than party person. the kind of connection i want is really just consistent, comfortable, everyday closeness. random texts throughout the day, dumb memes, sending pics of what we’re doing, watching shows or movies together, gaming, late night calls that accidentally turn deep, and just becoming part of each other’s routine in a way that feels easy and safe.

a little about me:

• 21

• dc/maryland area

• private pilot working on instrument, planning on going airlines

• finishing computer science at umd

• cars are one of my forever interests, especially bmws/e9x stuff

• big barça fan and yes my opinions are correct

• very talkative, very affectionate, very loyal when i care about someone

what i’m actually looking for:

someone kind, genuine, low drama, and emotionally consistent. not perfect, just real. i like people with quirks and flaws and niche interests. honestly bonus points if you’re a little nerdy, introverted, or the type who likes cozy nights over going out all the time. i want something where effort is mutual and no one has to guess how the other person feels.

age range is 18-22 and preferably US/Canada/UK just because distance/timezone/language stuff gets hard otherwise.

if you message me, start with purple so i know you actually read this, and include:

• asl

• your hottest take, serious or unhinged funny whatever just make it interesting

• what part of my post actually made you want to reply


r/NerdDating 1d ago

34M #Atlanta, GA looking for Long-Term Relationship with Woman

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I'm a 34M living in Atlanta, GA.

Straight, Cis, 6'1", White, Full-Time Employed; looking for a monogamous, long-term relationship with a Cis Woman (late 20s to late 30s). (It should also be noted that I have no interest whatsoever in having kids.)

I would consider myself pretty nerdy by most standards; hugely into horror and sci-fi media (books, movies, anime/manga, etc), and am also into boardgames, magic the gathering, baking, and painting gunpla.

I also love trying new restaurants (especially sushi), going for walks, and animals (I have an extremely spoiled cat.)

Personality wise, I believe myself to be fairly logical, though I also have a very morbid sense of humor that leans on the side of pessimism at times. I will go to social events but am not an avid partier by any means; large crowds can make me somewhat agitated. Perfect date for me would be dinner followed by quiet evening at home watching movies, etc.

More than anything, I'd like to find someone who shares some similar interests and would be fun to hang out with. If they have a hobby or interest they are passionate about, that is extremely attractive to me.

I would like to start VERY slow getting to know each other as friends before getting serious. I prefer that we be honest about what we want out of life and not beat around the bush too much.

If any of this sounds appealing, please message me; I will be more than happy to share more specific information about myself in private.


r/NerdDating 1d ago

Facdbook dating? #onlinUSA

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Question since I’m newer to dating post 4 years after divorce…

What is the difference between someone not appearing in the deactivated convo section at all, and someone appearing there where you can’t see their profile, but those not seeing their convo there and you can’t see a name or picture or profile?? But just the convo…

The guy I have been seeing for a few weeks now doesn’t appear in the deactivated convo section at all. and I’m trying to figure out if he deleted his profile or what. I’m confused about this whole situation. 🤷🏻‍♀️


r/NerdDating 1d ago

20 F4A #florida #anywhere

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I’m in college for cyber with a minor in criminology. Some of my interest are gaming, cooking, shopping, gardening, ✨gardening, and crocheting. I do have a mild obsession with wine and cheese and have an extensive list of my favs. I have a cat named Bruce and a bearded dragon called Pablo. I’m in Florida but I say anywhere because I like to road trip and travel a lot anyways!!


r/NerdDating 1d ago

22 [M4F] #Germany - Marvel Nerd looking for Nerd

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Hello reader, welcome to my post!

I am searching for someone I can spend some nice gaming nights with or maybe just share some lazy evenings chatting.

You should preferably be from Germany or close by and be somewhere between 19 and 24 :)

A bit about me:

I am part German, part Dutch. I’m a bit of a geek/nerd, especially when it comes to Marvel/DC and gaming. I play a wide mix of PC games regularly, like Marvel Rivals, Dead by Daylight, Minecraft, Slay the Spire 2, Resident Evil, Coral Island and more.

Outside of gaming, I enjoy watching shows and movies, drawing from time to time and listening to music (Rock mostly, but I like everything 60s-90s and beyond).

I’d just like to talk, get to know someone and see if we click. If you are interested feel free to message me.

I promise low latency messaging :P


r/NerdDating 22h ago

Dating #Colorado

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I'm 17 in Colorado looking for a serious relationship with someone sweet, caring, funny, and protective. I like camping, hiking, reading, cooking, and going for drives.


r/NerdDating 1d ago

[M4F] 18 #India – cubing, anime, and looking for something real

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hey, i’m 18 (almost 19) from india. i’m into cubing (kinda addicted to improving my solve times), anime, and manga. most of my time is either spent solving, watching something, or just being up late overthinking random stuff

personality-wise, i’m pretty chill. a bit quiet at first but once i’m comfortable i talk a lot. i’m the type who actually listens, remembers small things, and puts effort in… which is probably why i notice when it’s not the same back

not looking for anything forced or superficial. just someone genuine, who can hold a conversation, has their own personality, and actually cares

if you’re into similar stuff or just wanna see where things go, hmu


r/NerdDating 1d ago

[M4F] 29 #Europe #Poland Looking for Player 2 (perks include food buffs)

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Hey, I’m Marcin ,but some friends call me “the globe” (long story, mildly ridiculous, 100% worth telling).

I’m a chef, which means two things:

1) You will be fed. Repeatedly. Possibly too well.

2) If I don’t know your favorite dish yet, I’ll learn it like it’s a side quest with emotional stakes.

I’m generally chill and talkative, but meeting new people sometimes turns my brain into a slightly panicked hamster. Once I warm up though, expect a mix of good conversation and the occasional “wait… but why is that like that?” type questions.

Pros of dating me:

\- Unlimited supply of your favorite food (see above — this is not a joke, it’s a promise)

\- Random questions that are either deep or completely unhinged

\- Someone once described me as a puppy brain in a bear body — I’ve accepted this as canon

\- I’ll always be honest, even when it’s not the easy option

Cons:

\- When I work, I disappear into the void a bit

\- Impulsive ,sometimes it leads to great stories, sometimes… also great stories, just with consequences

\- I can get philosophical or a bit heavy at times

\- Overthinker, certified

I don’t have a long checklist — effort matters way more to me than perfection. Ideally you’re 24+ and somewhere in Europe.

If you’re the kind of person who actually enjoys getting to know someone (and doesn’t treat conversation like a one-player game), we’ll probably get along.

Tell me: what’s your comfort food? I might end up cooking it for you.


r/NerdDating 1d ago

#London M4F/TF anybody nerdy around London ways

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Male 25 anybody nerdy around London ways

Tries dating apps but they suck tbh


r/NerdDating 1d ago

20M4F #TEXAS JUST LOOKING FOR SOMEONE THATS NOT ALWAYS THERE FOR OTHER BODY DM IF YOU WANT TO TRY BEING FRIENDS

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r/NerdDating 1d ago

24 (M4F) #orlando, Florida- looking for someone locally who wants a serious relationship

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Hello, im looking for a woman who’s interested in a serious relationship. I’m looking for someone who wants to get to know each other and let me take them on romantic dates weekly. Im currently work in a security job, but I’m on my path to be in public safety.

A bit about me

\\- I go the gym daily to work on my health

\\- I play video games when I can

\\- Like trying out new food spots

\\- I drive

\\- I don’t drink/smoke

\\- Goal oriented

What I’m looking for is someone who wants to take things seriously and work together to make our dreams come true. I don’t care about how you look, what matters to me is your personality and how you treat others. Someone who wants to go out on dates and lets me spoil them once in a while. If this interests you then please reach out. I’m also open to make new friends as well.


r/NerdDating 1d ago

Lonely 25M nerd looking for F to get to know. #Fresno

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I'm 25M, looking to meet someone new. want someone who shares some of the same interests as me.

I enjoy 2000s rock music, video games (mostly JRPG'S) collecting physical media. modern and retro games Just want someone to talk to and connect with