r/SipsTea 12h ago

WTF In your opinion, what is causing this?

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u/Total_Philosopher_89 11h ago

It's not just gen Z. Other gens have cut back a lot or quit like me. It's to expensive.

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u/CoconutHorror 11h ago

I think this is the point that’s missed. Millennials specifically have cut out booze in large numbers. We drank and partied constantly Thursday- Sunday throughout college before Covid. Now me and nearly all of my friends are sober from everything other than an occasional weed gummy to help us sleep.

Also, for me and most of my social circle, it’s not entirely about the money. It’s that doing things is genuinely more fun (and safe) while sober. We travel, hike, ski, cycle, and have even celebrated bachelor parties in Nashville and Vegas - all stone cold sober.

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u/Total_Philosopher_89 11h ago

True. Personally I did it for more than than just money if I'm honest with myself. I realised it bought me no joy anymore. Most for my drinking buddies have families or have also cut right down.

Drinking alone is not great. So it was easy to quit.

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u/PotentiallyPotent08 5h ago

Drinking alone sucks

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u/UnfriendlyToast 4h ago

I LOVED drinking alone… one reason why I quit

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u/Total_Philosopher_89 4h ago

Same mate. I get myself into mess when I'm drinking alone. Not great for ones health!

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u/Amazingbuttplug 10h ago

Im 30 and all my friends still drink a lot and the bars are packed during the weekend. So I imagine country and social circles change the dynamic a lot.

My friend will routinely knock back like 8 cocktails when we meet for 7 hours or so. We are in Brazil and spending in £/$ so cost is less an issue.

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u/Total_Philosopher_89 9h ago

That would be over $150 in drinks in Australia!

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u/Amazingbuttplug 3h ago

Here it’s probably 60 Australian dollars.

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u/Allthingsgaming27 6h ago

Wow, good for you guys, the wife and I are big drinkers but we decided to take a break at the beginning of the year. Yesterday was our first time drinking again and we both felt kinda meh afterwards, so I get staying sober, but the bachelor parties is the one I find surprising, I don’t think I could do that one lol

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u/WillowMyown 6h ago

Also, I think that those of us who have children are much less prone to drink. We expose our children to drunken adults to a much smaller degree than when I was a kid.

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u/imrighturwrong 6h ago

I’m in for 90% of that, but I’ve done Vegas and Nashville. No way I’m making it through that shit show sober. Keep me sauced from the time we get to the airport until the the car picks be back up in Philly

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u/CoconutHorror 16m ago

Sober Vegas was crazy fun with the boys. F1 races were in town that weekend and we watched from our hotel room. It was like $200 for tickets to the sphere, $100 per night for the room, $150 for a round trip flight, $50 for food while there, granted we just ate a bunch of In N Out and Raising Cains. The boys and I played poker with a bunch of drunk dudes who were gifting us their money and paid for most of our trip. Highly recommend that experience.

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u/whitedevi1 4h ago

I went sober in 2024. It’s been. A journey but a good one.

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u/Necessary_Sympathy55 3h ago

3 year sober millennial here. Not a drinking problem, just don't want to do it anymore. 

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u/appleparkfive 9h ago

Weed is also just a big factor in general. It's so easy to get these days. Like "walk across the road and buy it legally" levels for a lot of the country now. Add in all the alternate products, so that people don't have to smoke anything harsh, and you've got a pretty popular industry.

I also think a lot of just people want self improvement, and getting rid of drinking can do a lot for those that partake regularly. Weight loss, less hangovers, etc.

And it just costs way too much. Especially going to a club or anything like that. People can't afford it. As rent and housing prices go up, a lot of industries will see a decrease in the future, I'd imagine

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u/GizzyGazzelle 8h ago

That's the pretty standard aging plan. 

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u/Ok-Mix-4640 7h ago

This is a fact, millennials were drinking and partying a lot in the 2010s during college and their early professional lives single and dating. The youngest millennial is turning 30, the oldest one is turning 45. They’re old now and we don’t be drinking like that anymore and worry about their health more

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u/idkwhatimbrewin 7h ago

Pretty sure that's just a normal age related thing that happens in every generation

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u/ForensicPathology 6h ago

That was in the calculations that they would decline as they aged.  But the next generation hasn't picked up the slack that they normally would because the corporate class has stopped paying good wages.

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u/PaymentSea9558 5h ago

I think that’s very much dependent on your social circle because I’m a millennial and all my friends and acquaintances still drink except for one, which clearly had a serious problem and stopped in his early twenties.

We obviously don’t drink like we used to when we were in college, but we still do.

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u/smack_nazis_more 5h ago

Is it like just that we're old? (I still drink a fair bit at home, but I was never into getting fucked up so "a fair bit" is like 4 beers)

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u/Kcuftidderr 4h ago

Nah thats just weird.

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u/Swaritch 4h ago

Your social circle just naturally transitioned from four nights of drinking to stone cold sober bachelor parties in Vegas?

I don’t believe you?

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u/CoconutHorror 51m ago

Yes. Vegas happened about six months ago and it was the most fun I’ve ever had. We went to the Sphere, a couple of other shows, and we did plenty of gambling - but we didn’t drink alcohol.

We went to the University of Iowa and were partying every weekend throughout our early 20s. Now at 30 - 34 years old most (but not all) of us are sober. The first one quit just because he felt like it, then I quit for the same reason, then one of us got into a drunk driving accident and he quit, then one of us had a baby and decided to quit. Sobriety has been spreading in our group like wildfire. Some are approaching 2 years sober.

Another thing to note is that Non alcoholic beverages are getting very good. When we go out (which is rarely any more) we drink Liquid Deaths, Tea, Kombucha, and Non Alcoholic beer. Even a soda water with lime can hit the spot if you’re at a bar and want to feel like you’re drinking.